Some days are better than others, but after holding death's paw and wrestling him to the ground, every day gets better.
Sunday, November 28, 2010
The first Thanskgiving
It's official. We are moving to Solvang and, yes, I am stoked. It is a big move for Bones--he has been in the same place for 12 years and has not had a girlfriend for a long time. Compromise is tough; not for me but for Bones. As good as he has it here, he is learning to be on his best behavior. Today Debbie would not let him comment on face place and sequestered him in her house. The situation involved 2 police officers outside the driveway. He just wanted to politely ask them what the heck was going on. Deb, or the source of all things good in my life, was afraid he would cause a ruckus. It seems he has a history of creating problems with the authorities.
The next 3 weeks will involve a lot of driving, moving from Ojai to Solvang. Bones and Meg and Jess have a storage area in Carpinteria--a half-way point where Bones can sort his stuff. He has a lot of musical equipment and is very sad to have to leave his music room behind.The fear is the band will die without his house to practice at. I won't miss the band nor the music, it was loud and I always had to stay in the house while they played.
I will not miss Ojai. It is cold, the floors have holes, there is no insulation, and the bathroom floor is falling in. The landlord is what they call a slumlord and, most important, I only have one couch to sleep on.
Thanksgiving at Deb's cousin's house was a blast. Not only was I allowed to attend the party, there were 2 girl dogs fighting over my affections. I have gained 8 pounds at Deb's house. When I first came here I had on a harness that was way too large for me. Now it is a nice, tight fit. I cut quite a swath at the dinner party.
Today Debbie took me for a walk. A big dog attacked me. As we were scuffling, Deb yelled, "Cash, Cash" and the other owner also yelled, "Cash, Cash". It turns out we were both named Cash -- the good Cash and the bad Cash. I am the good Cash.
If Bones gets thrown out he can live in his van I am staying here.
Hugs from the hill Cash Fargo Bellinger
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
This ain't no stinking trailer park
That's right folks I have been kick-in it in a sweet mobile home park. I told you that Murphy's mom took bones in after our accident.She has been gracious and giving. I hate to say it but it took another near death experience for us to land in such a great place.
I have the run of the house and as far as I can tell I have my own bedroom that I sleep in at night. Bones hate to owe people and he still feels helpless in many ways, I know about fighting back from the brink and I feel for him.
At the same time that I feel for him I love it here. The cats and I have a deal worked out, Murphy is the king and Percy and juju play games with me.
I have a couple toys that are all mine I never really knew how much fun squeeze toys and balls were untill this period of my life. I think Murphy and I get along because we are both survivors. Murph is a tough old guy and he deserves respect so I give it to him. Last night we made a Debbie sandwich I was asleep on one side and Murphy on the other side of the bed. I can make myself weigh 100 pounds when I sleep so no one can move me.
Bone's youngest son moved back to town he is staying at our house in Ojai and driving our old truck. Bone's loves that he can share something with him. Sometimes he cry's for no reason. He tried to hug me the other night got down on one knee and forgot he could not bend the other knee. Deb had to help him up. On his birthday Jess and Meg came up to Solvang to see him, Deb made an incredible meal for everyone. Bones cried a lot. I know how he feels friends and family are what matters most.
Bones is kind of an emotional baby right now he wants to hug his family and loved ones but it hurts too much.
I have a field up here I go to when Deb gets home. There are a thousand squirrels running around it is no leash and no bag I love it.
So as of this post all is well in the animal kingdom I am just about done with my pills. It is time for my afternoon nap I just don't know which couch to crash on. Oh yea I got to see Roxy a while back we had a play date and it was fun. It seems to me I am now the older boyfriend and she defers to my experience.
Hug the ones you love while you can. Tell your family you love them.
Hugs from the hill. Cash Fargo Bellinger:
I have the run of the house and as far as I can tell I have my own bedroom that I sleep in at night. Bones hate to owe people and he still feels helpless in many ways, I know about fighting back from the brink and I feel for him.
At the same time that I feel for him I love it here. The cats and I have a deal worked out, Murphy is the king and Percy and juju play games with me.
I have a couple toys that are all mine I never really knew how much fun squeeze toys and balls were untill this period of my life. I think Murphy and I get along because we are both survivors. Murph is a tough old guy and he deserves respect so I give it to him. Last night we made a Debbie sandwich I was asleep on one side and Murphy on the other side of the bed. I can make myself weigh 100 pounds when I sleep so no one can move me.
Bone's youngest son moved back to town he is staying at our house in Ojai and driving our old truck. Bone's loves that he can share something with him. Sometimes he cry's for no reason. He tried to hug me the other night got down on one knee and forgot he could not bend the other knee. Deb had to help him up. On his birthday Jess and Meg came up to Solvang to see him, Deb made an incredible meal for everyone. Bones cried a lot. I know how he feels friends and family are what matters most.
Bones is kind of an emotional baby right now he wants to hug his family and loved ones but it hurts too much.
I have a field up here I go to when Deb gets home. There are a thousand squirrels running around it is no leash and no bag I love it.
So as of this post all is well in the animal kingdom I am just about done with my pills. It is time for my afternoon nap I just don't know which couch to crash on. Oh yea I got to see Roxy a while back we had a play date and it was fun. It seems to me I am now the older boyfriend and she defers to my experience.
Hug the ones you love while you can. Tell your family you love them.
Hugs from the hill. Cash Fargo Bellinger:
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